Safety & Privacy
Safety is the cornerstone of everything we do.
Every part of this process is arranged to protect both people before a private introduction is ever made. That order matters to us.
How we protect you
The principles behind a higher-trust process.
Women apply free
There are no fees for women, ever. You're never the product here.
Men are screened first
Men are screened and verified before they're ever represented to anyone.
Women verify only when needed
Women complete basic verification only when a specific match is being considered. Not a moment sooner.
No public profiles
Your application is private. There's nothing here for the world to browse.
No swiping
No feed, no deck, no gamified attention. Real people make the introductions.
No selling of personal information
We don't sell your personal information. We hold it only to make your introductions.
We operate a strict no-financial-requests policy. No one in our process may ask you for money or financial favors of any kind. If someone does, that's a hard line and we want to hear about it.
- No loans
- No investments
- No crypto
- No emergency money
- No gifts
- No financial favors
- Participants can always decline an introduction.
- Verification happens before private introductions are made.
- Your information is never sold to anyone.
- You set the pace of any courtship that begins.
Our process is designed to confirm identity, reduce obvious safety risks, and protect both sides before private introductions are made. Identity verification and background-screening consent are part of this process.
We handle identity verification and background screening as part of the work we do on men before they are ever represented. Verification reduces risk but does not guarantee outcomes, and you can always decline an introduction.
For the full detail on how we collect, use, and protect your information, please read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Service.
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